Written By | Meg Rallis
Intro Photo | Holland House Photography
In essence, boudoir photography is a celebration of womanhood in all its glory. It transcends societal norms and expectations, empowering women to embrace their true selves with confidence and grace. Through the lens of boudoir photography, every woman has the opportunity to reclaim her narrative, redefine beauty on her own terms, and celebrate the goddess within.
“I am the mother of 3 that used to nit-pick my body. When my husband told me I was beautiful, my first reaction was ‘well, you have to say that.’ But now,I am done with all that! I am done putting myself down, done thinking I would be prettier ‘if…’ I am done comparing! Women are more beautiful BECAUSE we are individuals. That is something to freakin’ celebrate! You are the only incredible YOU. Cheers to you girl!!!”
boudoir by angelique


Photos Above| Elisa Mitchel Photography
BOUDOIR IS FOR EVERY WOMAN (yes, even you!)
We live in a world where social media shows us daily what we should think beauty looks like, but the truth is we are all beautiful. Boudoir invites all women, regardless of age, shape, or background, encouraging them to embrace their unique sensuality. It’s not about conforming to societal standards, or to even other boudoir imagery you have seen, but rather about discovering and owning the inherent allure that lies within each of you. This platform exists to offer all women a stage for self-expression so that they may define beauty on their own terms.
“Boudoir is a beautiful expression of who we are. There is no hiding. But the outcome is seeing beyond what we think of as flaws and seeing our true body and soul beauty. Show up for yourself and realize you ARE beautiful! You ARE worthy! And you ARE perfect just as you are! That is why I do what I do!”
boudoir by angelique
“Boudoir images are some of my very favorite to shoot. Women always come in, feeling super nervous and anxious about the whole experience and by the end they’ve had so much fun and they wonder why they were ever worried at all!
holland house photogrpahy
UNVEILING YOUR INNER (sexy) DIVA
Whether you believe it or not, inside you is a captivating soul (aka: sexy diva), waiting to be tapped into, empowered and celebrated. Boudoir photography is not just pictures, it is also a transformative journey, allowing women to connect to their sensual side and embrace their inherent femininity. It is a powerful reminder that beauty comes in your exact shape and size. There is so much joy in embracing one’s true self! As each woman embarks on this journey of self-discovery, she not only creates stunning images, but she also undergoes a profound internal shift. The process itself builds confidence and gives women the keys to comfortably showcase her beauty through self-expression and self-love!
“I love shooting boudoir because I love seeing the transformation people make during and after their session. I’ve had clients become full on models after their session from the confidence they felt in front of the camera. There’s nothing better than showing the back of the camera to someone and just seeing all their inhibition fall away.”
davison visuals photo + video
“For you to be able to take a pause from the endless to-do lists, meetings, and finalizations. To revel in this very special time in your life. To celebrate who you are as a woman. To honor your transition from bride to wife. And to set you out on this beautiful, exciting new chapter knowing just how beautiful you are…”
elisa mitchell studios


Photos Above| Gambles Photography
MENTAL REPOSE
At its core, boudoir photography is a deeply personal art project. It offers women a moment solely for them in the middle of the chaos of daily life, allowing them to indulge in some much-needed “me time.” Whether it’s as a prelude to a wedding, simply a celebration of oneself, or to mark a milestone on a personal journey, boudoir photography provides a space for women to express themself. If she chooses, this personal expression can strengthen the bond between her and her partner as it shares two sides of herself: the empowered and the intimately vulnerable. Whether you share these photos, or they are intended for your own personal transformation, it is completely up to you! The process of becoming the woman in the photos may be all you were looking for (although we promise “future you” will love looking back at those young diva days).
“I take all the time we need to fully guide clients through the process from wardrobe to posing, and they leave happy and empowered, and feeling like a million bucks! Boudoir albums are not only the perfect wedding gift for your fiancé, they are a great gift to yourself to celebrate a big accomplishment or just because!”
holland house photography
“I always used to preach the benefits of having boudoir photos taken. You gain confidence, you feel empowered; all the stuff you normally hear when you talk to a boudoir photographer. And yes, all of those things 100% apply to every session, but the impact of boudoir photos actually changed for me when I had my miscarriage. Part of my healing process with my body was allowing myself to be vulnerable again. It really allowed me to shift my mind from ‘my body is the problem’ to ‘my body is supporting me through all that trauma.’ Getting in front of the camera and being vulnerable can be so healing.”
davison visuals photo + video


Photos Above | Davison Visuals Photo + Video
CREATING INTIMATE SPACES
Boudoir photography is versatile when it comes to location. Whether it’s in the comfort of your own home, a professional studio, or a luxurious hotel room, the possibilities are endless. What matters most is creating an environment that feels personal and intimate, one where you can truly let your guard down (in sublime natural light, of course). Along with your photographer, choose a location that resonates with your personality, resulting in images that are not only visually stunning, but also deeply meaningful.
“The location can be as unique as the lady! I try to offer all the vibes – Boho in the sunroom, bright, white, and airy in the bougie camper, earthy with a clawfoot tub in the woods, artistic with neon body paints, and that dark and moody vibe comes into play with some of my favorite downtown lofts for rent!”
gambles photography
“Women supporting women? Big fan! Want to know something else I believe deeply in? Women protecting women. When you are in my studio, I’m like a mama bear. I’m so protective of your energy, your dignity, your comfortability and your vulnerability. It’s important to me that you feel safe. Safe to allow yourself to crack open, to be fully present, to immerse yourself in the magic of your shoot. You are so welcome and so wanted here.”
elisa mitchell studios
CAVEAT
With all of these tips being said: You make the rules: We support you however you choose to celebrate the unique essence of your femininity. So, whether you’re planning a wedding, marking a milestone, or simply seeking to reconnect with your inner diva, we encourage you to talk to a few different boudoir photographers and find the person that will lead you on a journey that is as empowering as it is beautiful.
XOXO, MET WED